Utica College Safeguard Women from Domestic Violence Discussion
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Post A
Describe a DV situation you are aware of (either personally or professionally). What signs of DV did you notice or hear about? Were you surprised to hear about the violence? Did the person seek help?
Being a male who works in a female-dominant specialty in nursing, pediatrics, I have unfortunately encountered a couple of co-workers involved in relationships that involved domestic violence (DV). They were some of the toughest females I have worked with; however, I learned that they were also the most vulnerable and emotionally weak despite appearing to be well-put-together. I only discovered the truth behind the matter as I began noticing bruising and injuries that occurred without a solid backstory. I grew closer with the involved workers, and as they opened up more about their unique situations, we were able to talk things through and find better support systems. I am a huge advocate for finding support systems typically revolving around building solid friendships.
Domestic violence is a significant contributor to health issues in women (Kaur & Garg, 2008). Fortunately for my friend, it took years for her to seek the help she needed and break away from the damaging relationship. A concern that was able to help make her decision was wanting to create a better atmosphere for her very influential son. Luckily, she has removed the toxic relationship and has been working on forming constructive relationships with others.
Describe how you could offer help to a person experiencing DV and give details of 2 Florida resources for persons to get help for DV.
A bill alone will not help in preventing domestic abuse; what is needed is a change in mindsets -(Kaur & Garg, 2008).
While there have been bills in place to protect women from domestic violence, the fact of the matter is we need more support and exposure for women involved in DV. In Florida, The Florida Department of Law Enforcement reported over 100,000 domestic violence cases (n.d). Imagine how many were unreported.
There are several resources we can advocate for in the Tampa Bay Area. One resource would be The Centre for Women, located in Hyde Park. The Centres number is 813 251 8437. The center has counseling services and offers programs that empower girls and women to help women succeed professionally and personally (The Centre, nd.).
Another resource would be a shelter to help house them if needed. The Spring is a great resource whose motto posted on their website states, Love shouldnt hurt. (n.d.) They have a 24-hour hotline, and which is excellent and easily accessible by users. Their 24/7 hotline number is 813 247 7233, and located in Tampa.
References
Florida Department of Law Enforcement. (n.d.) Domestic violence. Retrieved from. https://www.fdle.state.fl.us/FSAC/Crime-Data/DV.aspx.
Kaur, R., & Garg, S. (2008). Addressing domestic violence against women: an unfinished agenda. Indian journal of community medicine: official publication of Indian Association of Preventive & Social Medicine, 33(2), 7376. https://doi.org/10.4103/0970-0218.40871
The Centre for Women. (n.d.) About. Retrieved from https://thecentre.org/.
The Spring. (n.d). Home. Retrieved from https://thespring.org/.
Post B
Describe a DV situation you are aware of (either personally or professionally). What signs of DV did you notice or hear about? Were you surprised to hear about the violence? Did the person seek help?
My experience with domestic violence (DV) was with a staff member two years ago. I noticed a young woman, who was a night shift patient care technician (PCT). She came on her shift with a bruise underneath her eye. At first, I had insensitively joked if she was too tired and fell from our units ramp/walkway (I tend to joke quite a bit at work, which all of my co-workers know my personality). She had laughed about it and brushed me off, but I had later assessed her from a distance and noticed she looked a little tired. I brought her to the side in private and asked about her wellbeing. She then cried, and quite honestly, I wasnt expecting her to do so and even trust me with the information that she and her husband had an explosive fight that resulted in him slapping her face with his backhand for the first time since their 3-year marriage (and had been together longer). She said they had already made up as she immediately regretted in slapping her as the argument ended the moment he touched her. Although the argument ended, she was still in emotional shock. I sat her down and provided a blanket around her and did not hug her until she leaned over and continued to cry. I informed the charge nurse to excuse the PCT for 30 minutes as she needed time to situate herself. I had carefully provided information to the PCT that there are additional resources to assist her as I wanted to ensure her safety. She did not request for additional help in regards to outside resources, but she had thanked me for listening. As she had entrusted me with this sensitive information, I had secretly informed a night shift nurse, whom I trusted, to look out for her throughout the night. The PCT still works on the unit and has not had any signs of DV since that incident. Five to six months after that incident, I had privately followed up with her and she stated there were no incidents since.
Describe how you could offer help to a person experiencing DV and give details of 2 Florida resources for persons to get help for DV.
If the PCT had requested help, the safety of her and her two children are the utmost priority. Additionally, I could have provided the website of Florida Department of Children and Families so she may reach out via telephone number and/or go to the local domestic violence center. According to Florida Department of Children and Families, the abuser may track the victims internet use and monitor computer activity, so it is advised to use another computer at a different location (2019). Another resource online would be Domestic Shelters.org, which is run by a non-profit charity to include a directory of verified domestic violence programs and shelters in the U.S. and Canada and provide additional information to users about the topic (Domestic Shelters.org, 2021). This website also allows a search for 24/7 hotline and emergency shelters in multiple languages.
References
Florida Department of Children and Families. (2019). Domestic violence. https://www.myflfamilies.com/service-programs/domestic-violence/
Domestic Shelters. (2021). Theresas Fund. Inc. https://www.domesticshelters.org/about
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